Well.....I don't even know where to start! First of all, I am getting a divorce!!! I am sooooo excited! I finally had enough! He choked me again for the last time and I told him that I was done! I was trying to wait until next year at tax time, but I can't do it anymore! We have been separated since a few days before Mother's Day. Other than the fact that he won't leave me alone and he has moved back in temporarily bc it's easier for him to have the kids if he's there. Now I'm miserable bc he makes me sleep in the same bed with him....we are not doing anything...no kissing, no messing around, no sex....nothing at all. But, to him as long as I'm in the bed beside him.....it's like we're back together....he won't let me sleep at night bc he wants us to be back together...I told him that I needed time......LOTS of time....he won't give it to me. There is no chance for us to ever get back together, but I have to be nice to him so that he will sign the divorce papers bc I can't afford a contested divorce. My situation sucks!
Another weird thing is that I am now "friends" with MR's wife/live in girlfriend. She called me one night to talk to me about why I was calling him and that she thought we were messing around and then she showed up at my boss's house (his brother) and we were both there and she confronted him....now she knows that I wasn't doing anything with him and we are all friends...well, except that she doesn't like IT at all.....come to think of it...no one likes him.
Another thing going on is that I am talking to this guy...we will call him Hunny bc IT thinks that something is going on. It's not....we are just friends....good friends. We knew him when Princess was a baby...do the calculations, that was 9 yrs ago. We were friends then and we met back up about a month ago. He called the buffet restaurant on Mother's Day morning. He didn't even know that I had told IT that I wanted a divorce. He just took a chance that I was working and he called to tell me Happy Mother's Day bc he wanted to make sure that someone told me Happy Mother's Day....he is kind of an ass to everyone else but he's always been sweet to me and that's what counts. He is going through a separation right now, also. His wife moved out last week and he says that he wants a divorce, but I don't think he really does. He is still talking about their anniversary being on June 10 and he is still wearing his wedding ring. Who knows? Right now, it's none of my business...we are just friends. We talk on the phone every morning and until this past Sat night, we had never met outside of the restaurant. IT convinced me to go have coffee with him on Sat night...No big....it was actually 12:30am on Sunday morning...June 1st. No big....it was just coffee. Then, I went to my oldest and dearest friend's house and talked to her for a while....I didn't go home til 4:15am....I was actually only gone for about 31/2 hrs. No big.
Oh, and they're talking about shutting the wrecker company down again...or letting me and MR run it....we will see....
Later,
AJ
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