I went out with one of my best friends 2 sat ago....July 26....we went dancing. Of course, I didn't dance. I don't dance...ever. I have absolutely no rhythm on the dance floor. lol.... I had a really good time on the way home.
Last Wed ( I think), I came to my new apt and cleaned. I had a really nice time.
Oh...that brings me to my next big news! I got an apt and moved with just my kids. IT didn't move with me! I still have to go to the old house on Fri and Sat to clean and move the last little bit, but......YEAH!!! I got my own place! It's a very small 1 bedroom apt...it's transitional housing for single moms....but, it's mine and he's not allowed over here!
Later,
AJ
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Monday, July 14, 2008
Quick update!
I went to one of my best friends house on Thurs night. It was awesome! I had a really good time. We talked and watched the Nanny Diaries. Also, she cooked for me.....kind of like french toast....it was yummy!
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
We watched the Green Mile
I went to my best friends house last night. We watched the Green Mile and started watching a comedy with Eddie Murphy and Dan Ackroid (I prob spelled that wrong)....but we got distracted. We talked all night. It was a great stress reliever!
I am now more confused than ever. I know what I want but don't know exactly how to get there or if I even have a chance of getting what I want. This is a very frustrating time in my life!!!
I'll post more later about what I really want.
Later,
AJ
I am now more confused than ever. I know what I want but don't know exactly how to get there or if I even have a chance of getting what I want. This is a very frustrating time in my life!!!
I'll post more later about what I really want.
Later,
AJ
My birthday night
I went to my best friend's house the night of my birthday. It was uneventful. She had a toothache so we didn't talk much....but we talked some.
Monday, June 16, 2008
We watched the Shawshank Redemption on Wednesday, June 11 til wee hrs on June 12.
So....today is my birthday....yesterday was Father's Day and Mine and IT's anniversary....yea....13 yrs of being together....see my excitement? I am still unsure of my plans for tonight.....I want to go "out", but I don't know if that will be possible yet.... We will see..if not, oh well...stuff happens.
T called at 5:30 this morning and woke me up....Technically, IT told me Happy Bday first bc he mumbled it when the phone woke him up....but, then T told me. Then everybody else called me....MawMaw, my sister, my uncle and daddy, my friend, you get the point.....not much to tell today...just feeling blah....I've been sick all morning and now I'm at work....yeah.....Princess wants to cook me supper today...I'm curious what she's gonna come up with.
I think IT had an ok Father's Day....I worked until 4:something....then I had to go to Wal-Mart. Princess wanted to cook supper for him. (He got pissy when we went to get his present at Wal-Mart the night before.) Princess picked out pics of all of us, and one of each of the kids and put them in a frame and a tee shirt and then cooked him supper last night.....I helped a little....
He was pissy bc he had to stay out of the kitchen while we cooked bc she wanted to surprise him...to top that off...the night bf, he sent Man and Munchkin to spend the night with people...he tried to get Princess to go ....she's not stupid so she asked me why Daddy wanted her to leave the night bf Father's Day.
Later,
AJ
So....today is my birthday....yesterday was Father's Day and Mine and IT's anniversary....yea....13 yrs of being together....see my excitement? I am still unsure of my plans for tonight.....I want to go "out", but I don't know if that will be possible yet.... We will see..if not, oh well...stuff happens.
T called at 5:30 this morning and woke me up....Technically, IT told me Happy Bday first bc he mumbled it when the phone woke him up....but, then T told me. Then everybody else called me....MawMaw, my sister, my uncle and daddy, my friend, you get the point.....not much to tell today...just feeling blah....I've been sick all morning and now I'm at work....yeah.....Princess wants to cook me supper today...I'm curious what she's gonna come up with.
I think IT had an ok Father's Day....I worked until 4:something....then I had to go to Wal-Mart. Princess wanted to cook supper for him. (He got pissy when we went to get his present at Wal-Mart the night before.) Princess picked out pics of all of us, and one of each of the kids and put them in a frame and a tee shirt and then cooked him supper last night.....I helped a little....
He was pissy bc he had to stay out of the kitchen while we cooked bc she wanted to surprise him...to top that off...the night bf, he sent Man and Munchkin to spend the night with people...he tried to get Princess to go ....she's not stupid so she asked me why Daddy wanted her to leave the night bf Father's Day.
Later,
AJ
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Puppies!!!
Ok, quick post!
T's dog had puppies on Sunday morning....I was there for 5 of them to be born! They were so cute!!
I have decided to breed Zoe....my blk chihuahua.
Later,
AJ
T's dog had puppies on Sunday morning....I was there for 5 of them to be born! They were so cute!!
I have decided to breed Zoe....my blk chihuahua.
Later,
AJ
Monday, June 2, 2008
WOW! Lots of catch-up!!!
Well.....I don't even know where to start! First of all, I am getting a divorce!!! I am sooooo excited! I finally had enough! He choked me again for the last time and I told him that I was done! I was trying to wait until next year at tax time, but I can't do it anymore! We have been separated since a few days before Mother's Day. Other than the fact that he won't leave me alone and he has moved back in temporarily bc it's easier for him to have the kids if he's there. Now I'm miserable bc he makes me sleep in the same bed with him....we are not doing anything...no kissing, no messing around, no sex....nothing at all. But, to him as long as I'm in the bed beside him.....it's like we're back together....he won't let me sleep at night bc he wants us to be back together...I told him that I needed time......LOTS of time....he won't give it to me. There is no chance for us to ever get back together, but I have to be nice to him so that he will sign the divorce papers bc I can't afford a contested divorce. My situation sucks!
Another weird thing is that I am now "friends" with MR's wife/live in girlfriend. She called me one night to talk to me about why I was calling him and that she thought we were messing around and then she showed up at my boss's house (his brother) and we were both there and she confronted him....now she knows that I wasn't doing anything with him and we are all friends...well, except that she doesn't like IT at all.....come to think of it...no one likes him.
Another thing going on is that I am talking to this guy...we will call him Hunny bc IT thinks that something is going on. It's not....we are just friends....good friends. We knew him when Princess was a baby...do the calculations, that was 9 yrs ago. We were friends then and we met back up about a month ago. He called the buffet restaurant on Mother's Day morning. He didn't even know that I had told IT that I wanted a divorce. He just took a chance that I was working and he called to tell me Happy Mother's Day bc he wanted to make sure that someone told me Happy Mother's Day....he is kind of an ass to everyone else but he's always been sweet to me and that's what counts. He is going through a separation right now, also. His wife moved out last week and he says that he wants a divorce, but I don't think he really does. He is still talking about their anniversary being on June 10 and he is still wearing his wedding ring. Who knows? Right now, it's none of my business...we are just friends. We talk on the phone every morning and until this past Sat night, we had never met outside of the restaurant. IT convinced me to go have coffee with him on Sat night...No big....it was actually 12:30am on Sunday morning...June 1st. No big....it was just coffee. Then, I went to my oldest and dearest friend's house and talked to her for a while....I didn't go home til 4:15am....I was actually only gone for about 31/2 hrs. No big.
Oh, and they're talking about shutting the wrecker company down again...or letting me and MR run it....we will see....
Later,
AJ
Another weird thing is that I am now "friends" with MR's wife/live in girlfriend. She called me one night to talk to me about why I was calling him and that she thought we were messing around and then she showed up at my boss's house (his brother) and we were both there and she confronted him....now she knows that I wasn't doing anything with him and we are all friends...well, except that she doesn't like IT at all.....come to think of it...no one likes him.
Another thing going on is that I am talking to this guy...we will call him Hunny bc IT thinks that something is going on. It's not....we are just friends....good friends. We knew him when Princess was a baby...do the calculations, that was 9 yrs ago. We were friends then and we met back up about a month ago. He called the buffet restaurant on Mother's Day morning. He didn't even know that I had told IT that I wanted a divorce. He just took a chance that I was working and he called to tell me Happy Mother's Day bc he wanted to make sure that someone told me Happy Mother's Day....he is kind of an ass to everyone else but he's always been sweet to me and that's what counts. He is going through a separation right now, also. His wife moved out last week and he says that he wants a divorce, but I don't think he really does. He is still talking about their anniversary being on June 10 and he is still wearing his wedding ring. Who knows? Right now, it's none of my business...we are just friends. We talk on the phone every morning and until this past Sat night, we had never met outside of the restaurant. IT convinced me to go have coffee with him on Sat night...No big....it was actually 12:30am on Sunday morning...June 1st. No big....it was just coffee. Then, I went to my oldest and dearest friend's house and talked to her for a while....I didn't go home til 4:15am....I was actually only gone for about 31/2 hrs. No big.
Oh, and they're talking about shutting the wrecker company down again...or letting me and MR run it....we will see....
Later,
AJ
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